2013-09-13 01:41:57 UTC
I always had the interest to LEARN how to cook, but felt helpeless with nobody there to show me. If I told people I didn't know how to cook, they would assume that I had no interest...which isn't true.
I know how to cook SOME things(very few things), but I'm still not an expert and I feel bad for not knowing a lot at 25. Some recipes still confuse me a bit, but I'm willing to learn as much as I can.
For some reason, I still feel bad. Sometimes my boyfriend seems shocked and a little judgemental over my lack of cooking knowledge. My mom indirectly tries to put me down by saying "what's burning in here" (when everything is fine).
I feel stupid when I make what turn out to be simple cooking mistakes and what's worse is it makes me feel like a bad mother to my daughter.
Should I feel bad that I don't have more cooking knowledge at my age? Is my situation common? Why do I feel like everybody's mother teaches them how to cook lots of things? Are there any sites out there that can help me learn how to cook properly, as far as times and temperatures and things like that, not just recipes?